Swinger Clubs

Bielefeld offers Why Not, a swinger club aimed at couples and open-minded adults. The scene in East Westphalia-Lippe is more compact than in the metropolitan areas along the Rhine and Ruhr, but the existing venues have built a loyal regular clientele.

Etiquette — the Key Rules

• No means no. Always and without exception.
• Watch only with permission. When in doubt, ask or keep your distance.
• Hygiene is mandatory. Shower before play. Use condoms.
• Follow the dress code. Check the specific club's requirements in advance.
• Drink in moderation. Visibly intoxicated guests will be refused entry.
• Phones stay in the locker. Photography is strictly forbidden.
• Discretion. What happens in the club stays in the club.

Tips for Your First Visit

1. Start as a couple. Most clubs are far more accessible for couples.
2. Drop your expectations. The first visit is mainly about getting a feel for the atmosphere.
3. Socialize at the bar. Casual conversation is the most natural way in.
4. Register in advance. Many clubs prefer or require prior registration.
5. Bring cash. Not all clubs accept cards.